ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs™

2023-11-15 20:35:06 Sometimes, you have to choose yourself. Sometimes, you have to choose your healing, no matter how hard you want to keep fighting, no matter how deeply you care. See, when your heart chooses someone who does not choose it back, when your tender soul fights for someone who will not fight for it, when you make the effort to show up for someone who does not care, or make the effort, to show up for you — you must walk away. You must give yourself the closure you so desperately seek. You must give yourself permission to move forward, to let go, to believe in the fact that you deserve to be loved by someone who will look at you and know that you are enough. Because if there is one thing life has taught me, it is that love, genuine love, should never make you feel like you are too much, it should never make you feel like a difficult person to care for. If there is one thing life has taught me, it is that love, worthwhile love, should never make you quiet your heartbeat, it should never be something you have to beg for. So please, if you still find yourself chasing after someone who is not chasing after you stop running towards those dead ends and instead start running toward yourself.

ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ

2023-11-12 12:01:47 It’s you against the world

ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ

2023-11-10 21:26:06 I want you to know that it's okay if they don't come back. I know you've been waiting for them to come back home, to apologise for everything they said they wouldn't do and did anyway. It's okay to mourn the spaces they once filled, to grieve for the moments now lost. But remember, while they were a chapter, they aren't the entire book of your life. You have to stop waiting. I know you no longer have someone to laugh with the way you did with them; so heartily and full of life. I guess that's why you've shut all your doors waiting for them to walk in any minute to tell you that they have been empty without you. I hope you give yourself the permission to let go, to breathe without choking on your feelings, to get up every day and want to make new memories. And I know that it's hard to move on, but I need you to know that it's okay to be alone, to rediscover the person you were before you loved, and the person you've become since the hurt. I hope you start wanting better for yourself. I need you to know that moving on doesn't mean that your love was less, it means that it's time for you to heal from all the hurt you were going through. Remember, moving on is nod a betrayal of your past but a promise to yourself — a pledge to live again.

ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ

2023-11-06 10:01:45 Peace

ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ

2023-11-01 19:15:18 If there's anything I wish we could talk more about it's the in-between stages of letting someone go. Because nobody lets go in an instant. You let go once. And then you let go again. And then again and again and again. You let someone go at the grocery store when their favorite type of soup is on sale and you don't buy it. You let them go again when you're cleaning your bathroom and have to throw out the bottle of the body wash that smells like them. You let them go that night at the bar when you go home with somebody else or you let them go every year on the anniversary of the day you lost them. Sometimes you're going to have to let one person go a thousand different times, a thousand different ways, and there's nothing pathetic or abnormal about that. You are human. And it isn't always as simple as making one decision and never looking back. Moving on isn't always about speeding enthusiastically forward so much as it's about having one foot on the gas and the other on the brakes - releasing and accelerating in turn. You're not a failure for getting to someplace amazing and still feeling like a part of yourself is missing once you get there. You're not pathetic for mourning while you grow. The bad things don't disappear in the blink of an eye and the good things don't spring up into existence without reigning at least a tiny bit 78.4K of collateral damage. It takes time for everything to even out. And it should.

ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ

2023-10-26 09:01:19 When you let them go…..

ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ

2023-10-24 19:20:06 Sometimes, love doesn't win. Sometimes beautiful things end because you outgrow another human be-ing, sometimes love becomes too heavy to hold - the potential and the lessons and the evolution have reached a threshold, there is nowhere else to place your hope. However, that is not something you should deem a failure or something that should break your heart. That is something to celebrate. You managed to care for someone in the deepest way, and you grew one another into human beings who are going to go off into this world and change other people with that love. You did all that you could for one another, and instead of forcing something that wasn't working or fulfilling you anymore, you chose to walk away. You chose to release your grip, to believe that there were other things in store for your hearts. There is bravery in that.

ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ

2023-10-21 19:10:06 Peaceful
ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ

2023-10-16 21:20:06 Take the long way home. Enjoy the scenery. Observe the way they wake up and take note of what makes them laugh. Know when it's about them and when it's about you. Find the spectacular in the mundane. Ask them to text you when they get home, to work, to their vacation destination. Be infinitely curious about how they live their days. Take time apart. Make room on the couch. Embrace the fact you don't know what's best for them. Set boundaries. Express grati-tude. Practice trust, even when it's scary (especially then). Keep both feet on the ground. Admit your mistakes. Accept their apologies. Throw away the scorecard. Kiss like you mean it. Ask more questions. Accept that it can be really hard to merge two paths; keep trying to anyway. Give them the aux cord. Give them the last fry. Give them the last word, even if you're really fucking pissed. Figure out what is worth the fight and what is not. Hold the door. Hold their hand. Hold space. Save them a seat. Notice the scattered gold flecks in their eyes. Tell them you're proud of them; tell them this often. Dance in the kitchen. Play hide-and-seek in the grocery store. Know you're lucky. Don't be hasty. Point out the dip in the sidewalk. Offer your arm. Offer your heart. Offer your world. Know when it's time to lovingly let go. Know when you need to hang on like hell.

ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ

2023-10-12 21:05:14 Peace
ɪɴ ᴍʏ ғᴇᴇʟɪɴɢs ክፈት / አስተያየት ይስጡ